If you mention infertility in public, you will summon The Experts. They appear from nowhere. They are Uber drivers. They are colleagues you barely know. They are distant relatives holding a plate of deviled eggs. And they all have The Answer. We call this game Infertility Bingo. The prize for
If you are a male entering the fertility system in Australia, you don't usually start in a clinical room. You start in a car, sitting right on the speed limit. The process is archaic. You visit a GP. They give you a referral. They give you a plastic
Tragedy doesn't happen in a vacuum. It doesn't wait for a rainy day, or a minor key cello soundtrack, or for you to be wearing dignified clothing. In my experience, tragedy has a preference for sunny Sundays in Mullumbimby, usually while you are deciding between carbohydrates.
A field guide to the life unplanned. If you follow the standard societal script, life has a specific rhythm. You grow up. You get a job. You partner up. You reproduce. You pass the baton. You join "The Club." But sometimes, the baton gets dropped. Matterhood is an